Inheriting Debt: Managing Debts Left Behind by Deceased Loved One

When a loved one passes away, their debts don’t simply vanish. They instead become part of the estate administration process. The prospect of inheriting debt can feel overwhelming for heirs and beneficiaries. However, not all debts transfer directly to family members. Knowing how to handle debts within an estate is crucial to protecting your financial stability and ensuring a smooth probate process.

What Happens to Debt when Someone Dies?

Debts owed by the deceased are typically paid from the estate before any assets are distributed to beneficiaries. This process is managed during probate, where the estate’s assets and liabilities are inventoried. If the estate’s assets are insufficient to cover the debts, some creditors may go unpaid, depending on state laws and the type of debt involved.

In most cases, heirs are not personally responsible for the deceased’s debts, unless they co-signed a loan or jointly held an account. However, exceptions exist, such as in community property states, where spouses may share responsibility for certain debts.

Types of Debts and How They are Handled

There are four overall different types of debts to consider when going through probate. These include secured debts, unsecured debts, medical debt and student loan debt.

Secured Debts

Secured debts, such as mortgages or car loans, are tied to specific assets. If the estate cannot cover these debts, creditors may repossess or foreclose on the associated property. Beneficiaries who wish to keep these assets may need to pay off the remaining balance or refinance the loan.

Unsecured Debts

Unsecured debts, including credit cards and personal loans, are paid from the estate’s liquid assets. If the estate lacks sufficient funds, these debts may go unpaid, as creditors cannot pursue heirs for payment.

Medical Debt

Medical debt is treated similarly to unsecured debt and is paid from the estate’s assets. However, in some states, Medicaid recovery programs may seek reimbursement for expenses covered during the deceased’s lifetime.

Student Loans

Federal student loans are generally discharged upon the borrower’s death, meaning they do not need to be repaid. Private student loans, however, may follow different rules, and some lenders may attempt to collect from the estate or a co-signer.

Steps to Manage Inherited Debt

Start by identifying all debts and liabilities of the estate. This includes reviewing bank statements, loan documents and creditor notices. Work with the estate’s executor or probate attorney to ensure that all debts are accurately accounted for.

Prioritize Debt Payments

Not all debts are treated equally during probate. Estate laws often prioritize certain obligations over unsecured debts, such as funeral expenses, taxes and secured debts. Ensure that payments are made in the correct order to avoid legal complications.

Avoid Personal Liability

Unless you co-sign a loan or are legally obligated, you are not personally responsible for the deceased’s debts. Be cautious of creditors who may attempt to pressure you into paying. Consult an attorney if you are unsure of your responsibilities.

Negotiate with Creditors

In some cases, creditors may be willing to negotiate reduced settlements, especially if the estate lacks sufficient assets to cover the full debt. Executors can work with creditors to reach agreements that preserve more of the estate’s value for beneficiaries.

Understand Your Rights

Familiarize yourself with state laws regarding debt inheritance and creditor claims. Many states have statutes of limitations on creditor actions, which may limit their ability to collect.

Protecting Your Financial Future

Dealing with a loved one’s debts can be emotionally and financially challenging. Taking proactive steps, such as working with an experienced probate attorney and communicating openly with creditors, can help you manage the process effectively.

Planning ahead is equally important. Encouraging your loved ones to create a clear estate plan, including an inventory of debts and assets, can prevent confusion and ease the burden on family members after their passing.

Key Takeaways

Estate Responsibility: Debts are typically paid from the estate’s assets, not directly by heirs, unless they co-signed loans or reside in community property states.
Secured vs. Unsecured Debts: Secured debts may require repayment to retain assets, while unsecured debts are addressed based on estate liquidity.
Medical and Student Loans: Federal student loans are discharged at death. However, Medicaid or private loans may still seek recovery from the estate.
Avoid Personal Liability: Heirs should not assume responsibility for debts without legal obligation and can negotiate with creditors through the estate.
Proactive Planning: A clear estate plan with a debt inventory can prevent confusion and streamline estate administration for loved ones.

Reference: National Bereavement Service (2024) “Can you inherit debt?”

Am I Obligated to Pay My Deceased Parent’s Medical Debts?

Being responsible for your parent’s medical debt plus your medical expenses is a genuine worry for many Americans. A recent article from U.S. News & World Report starts with an unsettling title: “This Is Why You Might Be Responsible For Paying Your Parents’ Medical Debts.” A total of 25 states currently have “filial responsibility laws,” enacted to give adult children the responsibility to support parents who can’t provide for themselves.

The reality is more nuanced than the headline. Technically, you could be required to pay for some of your parents’ essential needs if they cannot. In Nevada, a law states that if there’s a written agreement to provide care, the child has control over and access to the parent’s assets or income, and the child can financially support the parents.

In most cases, certain triggering events must occur before the children need to pay their bills. For one, the parent must be found to be indigent. If parents receive nursing home care and cannot afford to pay for care until they qualify for Medicaid, the facility could sue the children.

Enforcement now rarely occurs. In Pennsylvania, a statute was proposed to prevent having family members support impoverished family members, including a person’s “child, spouse and parents.”

However, there’s more to the story. Adult children might get phone calls and letters from debt collectors if medical bills are unpaid. If a healthcare provider doesn’t receive payment and sells the debt to a third-party collection agency, the collection agency then owns the debt. It may turn to any viable source—typically, an adult child.

What can you do? Unless you co-signed or agreed to be a guarantor on bills for your parents, you are not liable for the debt. The collection agency will hope you don’t know this and press for payment. They may not be polite about it either. They cannot sue you or add the debt to your credit reports by law. They can be very aggressive. However, you have the law on your side. You don’t have to pay if you’re not legally responsible for the bill.

You’re also protected by the Fair Debt Collection Practices Act (FDCPA), which gives you the right not to talk with third-party debt collectors. Once you tell the person it’s not your debt and to stop contacting you, they are bound by the FDCPA to stop contacting you.

There are steps to prevent any accidental mingling of funds with parents. For starters, don’t co-sign debts, including loans, mortgages and credit cards. Read nursing home contracts thoroughly; some contracts may attempt to sign you up as a responsible party. Don’t sign anything you don’t understand—ask your estate planning attorney to review the contract first.

Plan by ensuring that your parents have wills, trusts and powers of attorney with medical directives. Talk with them about insurance policies and find out if they have created trusts to protect their assets. If they are relatively healthy, see if they are eligible for long-term care insurance.

Put a plan in place for the inevitabilities that occur in life. They may be spry today. However, aging is not always a kind or easy process. If it’s likely they will need your help, and you’re able to do so, build in some emergency funds for their needs. If parents have not put any estate planning into place, including planning for long-term care, talk with your estate planning attorney about how to help them get started.

Reference: U.S. News & World Report (June 28, 2024) “This Is Why You Might Be Responsible For Paying Your Parents’ Medical Debts”

What’s the Most Common Type of Debt for Retirees?

The goal of beginning your retirement in the black is admirable, the reality can be quite different.

Money Talks News’ recent article entitled “Sadly, This Is by Far the Most Common Debt Among Retirees” reports that a recent survey of 1,998 American retirees between the ages of 62 and 75 found that many retirees have debt.

Some likely ran out of time to pay off their debts before retiring, and others may have entered the red or simply deepened their debt level after leaving work.

Whatever the reason, these are the most common types of debt that retirees report — along with other debts that are part of retirement for many people.

Credit card debt. A total of 40% of retirees said they had this type of debt in 2022, compared to 43% in 2020.

Credit card debt is almost always expensive, but it’s much scarier when you do not have a regular paycheck to help you pay bills.

Mortgage. Retirees who said they had this type of debt in 2022 was 30% and is not available for 2020.

A home loan is one of the few types of borrowing that can be classified as “good debt.” Some experts say paying off a mortgage before retirement is advisable, but others argue against such a strategy.

Car loans. Retirees who said they had this type of debt in 2022 was 23%, compared to 30% in 2020.

Unless you have a lot of money in savings, an auto loan is hard to avoid — whether you are retired or not. Therefore, it makes sense that nearly a quarter of retirees are still paying off this type of loan.

Less common types of debt. Retirees said they’re also carrying these types of debts in 2022:

Medical debt: 11%
Home equity loan: 7%
Student loan: 4%
Business loan: 1%

Reference: Money Talks News (Oct. 20, 2022) “Sadly, This Is by Far the Most Common Debt Among Retirees”

Can Grandchildren Receive Inheritances?

Wanting to take care of the youngest and most vulnerable members of our families is a loving gesture from grandparents. However, minor children are not legally allowed to own property. With the right strategies and tools, your estate plan can include grandchildren, says a recent article titled “Elder Care: How to provide for your youngest heirs” from the Longview News-Journal.

If a beneficiary designation on a will, insurance policy or other account lists the name of a minor child, your estate will take longer to settle. A person will need to be named as a guardian of the estate of the minor child, which takes time. The guardian may not be the child’s parent.

The parent of a minor child may not invest and grow any funds, which in some states are required to be deposited in a federally insured account. Periodic reports must be submitted to the court, and audits will need to be done annually. Guardianship requires extensive reporting and any monies spent must be accounted for.

When the child becomes of legal age, usually 18, the entire amount is then distributed to the child. Few children are mature enough at age 18, even though they think they are, to manage large sums of money. Neither the guardian nor the parent nor the court has any say in what happens to the funds after they are transferred to the child.

There are many other ways to transfer assets to a minor child to provide more control over how the money is managed and how and when it is distributed.

One option is to leave it to the child’s parent. This takes out the issue of court involvement but may has a few drawbacks: the parent has full control of the asset, with no obligation for it to be set aside for the child’s needs. If the parents divorce or have debt, the money is not protected.

Many states have Uniform Transfers to Minors Accounts. In Pennsylvania, it is PUTMA, in New York, UTMA and in California, CUTMA. Gifts placed in these accounts are held in custodianship until the child reaches 18 (or 21, depending on state law) and the custodian has a duty to manage the property prudently. Some states have limits on the amount in the accounts, and if the designated custodian passes away before the child reaches legal age, court proceedings may be necessary to name a new custodian. A creditor could file a petition with the court if there is a debt.

For most people, a trust is the best option for placing funds aside for a minor child. The trust can be established during the grandparent’s lifetime or through a testamentary trust after probate of their will is complete. The trust contains directions as to how the money is to be spent: higher education, summer camp, etc. A trustee is named to manage the trust, which may or may not be a parent. If a parent is named trustee, it is important to ensure that they follow the directions of the trust and do not use the property as if it were their own.

A trust allows the assets to be restricted until a child reaches an age of maturity, setting up distributions for a portion of the account at staggered ages, or maintaining the trust with limited distributions throughout their lives. A trust is better to protect the assets from creditors, more so than any other method.

A trust for a grandchild can be designed to anticipate the possibility of the child becoming disabled, in which case government benefits would be at risk in the event of a lump sum payment.

There are many options for leaving money to a minor, depending upon the family’s circumstances. In all cases, a conversation with an experienced estate planning attorney will help to ensure any type of gift is protected and works with the rest of the estate plan.

Reference: Longview News-Journal (Feb. 25, 2022) “Elder Care: How to provide for your youngest heirs”

Does Marriage have an Impact on a Will?

It is very difficult to challenge a marriage once it has occurred, since the capacity needed to marry is relatively low. Even a person who is under conservatorship because they are severely incapacitated may marry, unless there is a court order stating otherwise, says the article “Estate Planning: On Being Married, estate planning and administration” from Lake Country News. This unfortunate fact allows scammers to woo and wed their victims.

What about individuals who think they are married when they are not? A “putative” spouse is someone who genuinely believed they were married, although the marriage is invalid, void, or voidable because of a legal defect. An example of a legal defect is bigamy, if the person is already married when they marry another person.

Once a couple is married, they owe each other a duty to treat each other fairly. In certain states, they are prohibited from taking unfair advantage of each other. Depending on the state of residence, property is also owned in different ways. In a community property state, such as California, marital earnings and anything acquired while married is presumed to be community property.

In a community property state, debts incurred before or during the marriage are also shared. In a number of states, marriage is sufficient reason for a creditor to come after the assets of a spouse, if they married someone with pre-marital debts.

There are exceptions. If a married person puts their earnings during marriage into a separate bank account their spouse is not able to access, then those deposited earnings are not available for debtor spouse’s debts incurred before the marriage took place.

If a married person dies without a will, also known as “intestate,” the surviving spouse is the next of kin. In most cases, they will inherit the assets of the decedent. If the decedent had children from a prior marriage, they may end up with nothing.

These are all reasons why couples should have frank discussions about finances, including assets and debts, before marrying. Coming into the marriage with debt may not be a problem for some people, but they should be advised beforehand.

A pre-nuptial agreement can state the terms of the couple’s financial health as individuals and declare their intentions. An experienced estate planning attorney can create a pre-nuptial to align with the couple’s estate plan, so the estate plan and the pre-nuptial work together.

Marriage brings rights and responsibilities which impact life and death for a couple. Starting a marriage based on full disclosure and proper planning clears the way for a focus on togetherness, and not solely the business side of marriage.

Reference: Lake Country News (Feb. 12, 2022) “Estate Planning: On Being Married, estate planning and administration”

How Do I Stop Heirs from Foolishly Wasting Inheritance?

This is a problem solved by a trust—a “spendthrift” trust. With a spendthrift provision in a testamentary trust created under a will or an inheritance trust created under a revocable living trust, the trustee makes all decisions about distributions. This can be an effective means of controlling the flow of money.

A spendthrift trust, according to the article “Possible to spendthrift-proof a trust” from Record Courier, is created for the benefit and protection of a financially irresponsible person.

For a spendthrift trust, it may be better not to choose a family member or trusted friend to serve as the trustee. Such person might not live long enough or have the capacity to serve as trustee for as long as required, especially if the heir is a young adult. Conflicts among family members are common, when money is involved. An independent and well-established trust company or bank may be a better choice as a trustee. Large estates often go this route, since their services can be expensive. However, some retail banks do have a private wealth division. All options need to be explored.

Another benefit to a spendthrift trust—funds are protected against current or future creditors of the beneficiary. Let’s say a parent wants to leave money to a child, but knows the child has credit card debt already. Unless they are co-signers, the parent and their estate do not have a duty to pay an adult child’s debts. The spendthrift trust will not be accessible to the credit card company.

It is difficult to set up a spendthrift trust to protect one’s own money from creditors. This is something that must be approached only with an experienced estate planning attorney. This is because the rules are complex and there are significant limitations. If you wanted to create a spendthrift trust for yourself, you would have to completely give over control of assets to the trustee. There is no way to predict whether a court will consider the person to have relinquished enough control to make the trust valid.

This type of spendthrift trust may not be created with an intent to defraud, delay or hinder creditors. Doing so may make the trust invalid and any possible protection will be lost.

A spendthrift provision in a will is a clause used to protect a beneficiary from a creditor attaching prior debts against the beneficiary’s future inheritance. This means that the creditor may not force an heir or the estate’s executor to pay the beneficiary’s inheritance to the creditor, instead of the beneficiary. It also prevents the beneficiary from procuring a debt based on a future inheritance.

It is important to be aware that a spendthrift provision in a will or a spendthrift trust has limitations. The assets are only protected when they are in the trust or in the estate. Once a distribution is received, creditors can seek payment from the assets owned by the beneficiary.

Another qualifying factor: the spendthrift provision in the will must prevent both the voluntary and involuntary transfer of a beneficiary’s interest. The beneficiary may not transfer their interest to someone else.

The spendthrift trust and clause are mainly intended to protect a beneficiary’s interests from present and future creditors. They are not valid if their intent is to defraud others and may not be created to avoid paying any IRS debts.

Reference: Record Courier (July 10, 2021) “Possible to spendthrift-proof a trust”

Does My Family have to Pay My Credit Cards when I Die?

Market Realist’s recent article entitled “What Happens to Credit Card Debt When You Die?” says that the short answer is that the deceased’s estate pays off any credit card debt they have left behind. Credit card debt and other debts can pass on to others in some cases, which is a big reason why estate planning is so important.

When a person dies, their assets are frozen until his or her will is verified, their debts are settled and their beneficiaries are identified in the probate process.

Then, the state will order that the deceased’s remaining assets (such as leftover cash and property with cash value) be used to pay off the credit card debt. However, retirement accounts, eligible brokerage accounts, and life insurance payouts are usually protected from this debt reconciliation. Once the debts are settled, the beneficiaries get their inheritance.

The debts are paid off until they’re all settled, or until the estate runs out of money. Unsecured debts, like credit cards, are usually paid off after secured debts, administrative fees and attorney fees.

There are some circumstances in which another person is legally obligated to pay the deceased’s debt.

Typically, no one is legally required to pay off a deceased individual’s debts, but there are some exceptions:

Co-signers must pay loans
Joint account holders must pay the debt on credit card accounts
Spouses have to pay particular types of debt in some states; and
Executors of an estate must pay outstanding bills out of property jointly owned by the surviving and deceased spouses in some states.

In addition, surviving spouses may be required to use community property to pay their deceased spouse’s debt in certain states.

The community property states are Arizona, California, Idaho, Louisiana, Nevada, New Mexico, Texas, Washington, and Wisconsin. Alaska would also be included in this list, if a special agreement is in place.

If there was no joint account, co-signer, or other exception, only the estate of the deceased person owes the debt.

Reference: Market Realist (Feb. 11, 2021) “What Happens to Credit Card Debt When You Die?”

What Debts Must Be Paid after I Die?

When you pass away, your assets become your estate, and the process of dividing up debt after your death is part of probate. Creditors only have a certain amount of time to make a claim against the estate (usually three months to nine months).

Kiplinger’s recent article entitled “Debt After Death: What You Should Know” explains that beyond those basics, here are some situations where debts are forgiven after death, and some others where they still are required to be paid in some fashion:

The beneficiaries’ money is partially protected if properly named. If you designated a beneficiary on an account — such as your life insurance policy and 401(k) — unsecured creditors typically can’t collect any money from those sources of funds. However, if beneficiaries weren’t determined before death, the funds would then go to the estate, which creditors tap.
Credit card debt depends on what you signed. Most of the time, credit card debt doesn’t disappear when you die. The deceased’s estate will typically pay the credit card debt from the estate’s assets. Children won’t inherit the credit card debt, unless they’re a joint holder on the account. Likewise, a surviving spouse is responsible for their deceased spouse’s debt, if he or she is a joint borrower. Moreover, if you live in a community property state, you could be responsible for the credit card debt of a deceased spouse. This is not to be confused with being an authorized user on a credit card, which has different rules. Talk to an experienced estate planning attorney, if a creditor asks you to pay off a credit card. Don’t just assume you’re liable, just because someone says you are.
Federal student loan forgiveness. This applies both to federal loans taken out by parents on behalf of their children and loans taken out by the students themselves. If the borrower dies, federal student loans are forgiven. If the student passes away, the loan is discharged. However, for private student loans, there’s no law requiring lenders to cancel a loan, so ask the loan servicer.
Passing a mortgage to heirs. If you leave a mortgage behind for your children, under federal law, lenders must let family members assume a mortgage when they inherit residential property. This law prevents heirs from having to qualify for the mortgage. The heirs aren’t required to keep the mortgage, so they can refinance or pay off the debt entirely. For married couples who are joint borrowers on a mortgage, the surviving spouse can take over the loan, refinance, or pay it off.
Marriage issues. If your spouse passes, you’re legally required to pay any joint tax owed to the state and federal government. In community property states, the surviving spouse must pay off any debt your partner acquired while you were married. However, in other states, you may only be responsible for a select amount of debt, like medical bills.

You may want to purchase more life insurance to pay for your debts at death or pay off the debts while you’re alive.

Reference: Kiplinger (Nov. 2, 2020) “Debt After Death: What You Should Know”

How to Be Smart about a Financial Windfall

Few would complain about a financial windfall, but many people report feeling feelings of anxiety, guilt and stress about what to do with new-found wealth, and even more importantly, how to not blow it. Making a plan, says the article “Handling a financial windfall” from MSN Money.com, is the best way to start.

Treat yourself. Finding a balance between being cautious about the money and enjoying it is not easy, especially if you’ve never handled large sums of money before. One way to do this, is to set aside a certain percentage of the money for fun. Depending on your situation, that might be 5% or less.

What is the tax liability? Some windfalls come with taxes, and some don’t. Life insurance proceeds are not taxable, but an inherited IRA is. Gambling winnings are definitely taxable, as is income realized from the sale of a home or stocks. If you don’t know what the taxes on your windfall will be, find out before you spend anything.

Time for a team approach. If you don’t already have an estate planning attorney, a CPA or financial advisor, now is the time. Ask well-off friends, whose business acumen you respect, who they recommend. Speak with these professionals to learn about what they do, and don’t be shy about asking what they charge for their services.

Create financial and life goals. You may have choices now that you’ve never had. Knowing what matters to you, can help determine how you use the money. It’s very personal. Some of your choices:

Buying or upgrading a home
Investing in financial markets
Buying life insurance
Creating an emergency fund
Paying for education
Saving for retirement
Paying off credit card debt

These are just a few—the choices are limitless. Think about this from a long and short-term perspective. What matters today—buying a luxury car, for example—may become an expensive loss in ten years.

This is also the time to have an estate plan created, or if you have an estate plan, this is the time to update your plan. A big change in your financial situation may require changes to protect your assets, which can be done through your estate plan.

Enjoy the windfall but also be smart about protecting it.

Reference: MSN.Money.com (July 31, 2020) “Handling a financial windfall”

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