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Top 5 Estate Planning Nightmares You Can Avoid with a Will

In the realm of estate planning, a common adage rings true: “Failing to plan is planning to fail.” As an experienced estate planning attorney, I’ve witnessed firsthand the turmoil and heartache that can ensue when individuals neglect the crucial step of drafting a will. This blog post is a clarion call to take control of your future and protect your loved ones from the all-too-common nightmares that arise from inadequate estate planning.

Family Disputes and Conflicts

The absence of a will can be the catalyst for family disputes that echo for generations. Imagine a scenario where siblings are torn apart, not by grief, but by the ambiguity of asset distribution. A will acts as a clear voice from beyond, guiding your family during a time of loss and preventing disputes that can irreparably fracture familial bonds.

Unintended Beneficiaries

Imagine your hard-earned assets falling into the hands of a distant relative you barely know, or worse, someone you wouldn’t have chosen to benefit from your estate. This isn’t just a hypothetical situation—it’s a reality for many who pass away without a will. Your will is a beacon, ensuring that your assets find their way into the right hands—those you specifically choose.

Delays and Additional Expenses

The probate process without a will is akin to navigating a ship through a storm without a compass. The journey is longer, fraught with legal complexities, and often more costly. By drafting a will, you provide a map that steers your estate through the probate process swiftly and efficiently, sparing your loved ones from unnecessary financial and emotional burdens.

Loss of Control Over Asset Distribution

Without a will, you relinquish control over who inherits your assets. State laws, devoid of personal sentiment, take the helm. This loss of control is especially critical if you have minor children or dependents whose future you wish to secure. A will is your tool to ensure that your specific wishes for your children’s guardianship and the distribution of your assets are honored.

Increased Legal Challenges

An estate without a will is fertile ground for legal disputes. These battles can drain your estate’s resources and leave your loved ones embroiled in legal quagmires. A well-crafted will is a shield, protecting your estate from the arrows of litigation and providing a solid legal foundation that upholds your wishes.

In conclusion, the nightmares of estate planning can be easily avoided by drafting a will. It is a fundamental step in ensuring your peace of mind and the well-being of your loved ones. Remember, a will is more than just a document; it’s a testament to your life, wishes, and legacy.

Don’t let indecision today lead to turmoil tomorrow. I invite you to take the first step in securing your legacy and safeguarding your family’s future. Contact me for a free consultation to discuss your estate planning needs. Together, we can craft a will that reflects your wishes, protects your assets, and provides clarity and comfort to your loved ones in times of need.

Remember, planning today creates peace of mind for tomorrow. Let’s embark on this journey together.

Key Takeaways

  1. Prevent Family Disputes: A will is essential to avoid familial conflicts over asset distribution, ensuring your wishes are clearly understood and respected.
  2. Control Over Beneficiaries: It enables you to designate precisely who receives your assets, preventing unintended beneficiaries from inheriting your estate.
  3. Efficient Probate Process: Drafting a will streamlines the probate process, reducing delays, complexities, and additional expenses for your loved ones.
  4. Guardianship of Dependents: A will allows you to make critical decisions about the future of your minor children or dependents, ensuring they are cared for as per your wishes.
  5. Legal Protection: Having a will minimizes the risk of legal challenges, protects your estate from potential disputes, and preserves its value for your beneficiaries.

Frequently Asked Questions

Why is a will important if I don’t have a large estate?

A will is crucial regardless of the size of your estate. It ensures that your assets are distributed according to your wishes, no matter how modest. It also helps appoint guardians for minor children and can minimize legal complexities for your loved ones.

Can I write my own will, or do I need an attorney?

While writing your own will is possible, consulting an experienced attorney is advisable to ensure that it meets legal requirements and accurately reflects your wishes. An attorney can help avoid common pitfalls that might render your will invalid or ineffective.

What happens if I die without a will?

If you die without a will, your estate will be distributed according to state intestacy laws, which may not align with your personal wishes. This can lead to unintended beneficiaries receiving your assets and complicate matters for your loved ones.

How often should I update my will?

Reviewing and possibly updating your will every 3-5 years or after major life events such as marriage, divorce, the birth of a child, or significant changes in your financial situation is recommended. This ensures your will remains relevant to your current circumstances.

Can a will reduce taxes on my estate?

A well-planned will can help in minimizing estate taxes. An estate planning attorney can guide you in structuring your will and other estate planning tools to maximize tax efficiency and preserve the value of your estate for your beneficiaries.

What’s Going on with Larry King’s Estate?

Larry King’s widow Shawn has accused the firm Blouin & Company of helping Larry King Jr. as part of the fight over the late broadcaster’s estate.

Radar Online’s recent article entitled, “Larry King’s Widow Shawn SUES HER OWN SISTER Claiming He Spent Millions On Her While They Had Secret Affair,” says that Larry Sr. died in January 2021.

Larry King Jr. asked the court to be named special administrator of his father’s estate. He presented a handwritten will that Larry Sr. had reportedly signed before his death. The amended will left his fortune to his child and not Shawn. Shawn objected to the will claiming Larry Sr. was not in the right mind to sign the amendment to the will. A settlement was eventually reached between the two.

But a few months later, Shawn sued Blouin & Company, claiming it had led a “fraudulent and malicious conspiracy to steal money from their client, Mrs. King, and deprive Mrs. King of her rights and interests in the estate of her late husband.”

Shawn brought claims against Blouin & Company and her sister Shannon Engemann Grossman, a named defendant. She claims that Shannon “received a substantial number of improper and unauthorized transfers of” her community assets. Moreover, she alleges that her sister received “unauthorized goods and services worth millions of dollars (or more subject to further investigation), including airfare, clothing and accessories, furniture, limousine services, healthcare services, dental implants, luxury automobiles, luxury hotel accommodations and numerous other goods and services.”

During their marriage, Shawn and Larry were close to divorce multiple times after marrying in 1997. In 2010, they both filed their petitions in Los Angeles Superior Court. Shawn believed Larry and her sister were having an affair.

At the time, Shannon denied having an affair with Larry. She admitted Larry was generous with gifts but said he was like that with everyone. Shannon said, “I’m tired of taking the rap for things. I did not have an affair with Larry. He’s been like a father to me.”

Blouin & Company denied all allegations of wrongdoing in their response and noted that Larry had a secret bank account that they were unaware of that he used to fund his lavish lifestyle. The firm filed a countersuit against Shawn for unpaid invoices.

Reference: Radar Online (Jan. 9, 2023) “Larry King’s Widow Shawn SUES HER OWN SISTER Claiming He Spent Millions On Her While They Had Secret Affair”

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How Do You Stop Family Fights Over an Inheritance?

More than two-thirds of all advisors surveyed by Key Private Bank said the hardest part of estate planning is navigating family dynamics, according to a 2019 survey. The sensitivities of simply talking about estate planning often present emotional challenges to putting a plan in place, especially when the family includes multiple marriages and blended families.

Advice is offered in a recent news article from CNBC, “Executor of a Family Estate? Here’s How to Avoid Infighting Over Inherited Wealth.”

Much of the problem, experts say, stems from poor communication. A dialogue needs to be open between generations that is a two-way conversation. In most instances, the older generation needs to invite the younger generation to get the ball rolling.

A lack of clarity and transparency can lead to problems. One example is a father leaving the family farm to his children, with a plan that also included money to help run the farm and legal documents to help the transition go smoothly. However, the children didn’t want the farm. They wanted to sell. Disagreements broke out between siblings, and the family was bogged down in a big fight.

Clearly Dad needed to talk with the children, while his estate plan was being created. The children needed to be upfront and honest about their plans for the future, and the issue could have been solved before the father’s death. The lesson: talk about your wishes and your children’s wishes while you are living.

After someone dies, they may leave behind an entire estate, with a lifetime of personal items that they want to gift to family members. However, if these items are not listed in the will, the heirs have to decide amongst themselves who gets what. This is asking for trouble, whether the items have sentimental or financial value. In fact, sentimental items often generate the most controversy.

When conflicts arise, the presence of a third party who doesn’t have emotional attachments and is not embroiled in the family dynamics can be helpful.

If the issue is not addressed before death, there are a few ways to move forward. An estate planning attorney who has seen many families go through this process can offer suggestions while the will is being prepared. There are facilitators or mediators who can help, if things get really rocky.

Heirs may wish to create a list of items that they would like to be reviewed by the executor. This option works best, if the executor is not a sibling, otherwise charges of favoritism and “Mom always liked you best” can spiral into family spats.

Some families group items into buckets of equal value, others set up a lottery to determine who picks first, second, etc., and some families literally roll the dice to make decisions.

Reference: CNBC (Nov. 12, 2020) “Executor of a Family Estate? Here’s How to Avoid Infighting Over Inherited Wealth”

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