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Can You Prevent a Will from Being Contested?

A 65-year-old woman wishes to have her estate organized by an executor, with the request that 90% of her assets be left to one of her grandchildren. She asks how she can be sure the executor will decide how to distribute her assets when the grandchild is 25 years old. To add a twist, there are several other grandchildren.

This situation, described in an article, “’ The situation is extreme’: I’m 65 and leaving my estate to only one grandchild. Can the others contest my will?” from MarketWatch, reveals the dangers of not understanding estate planning basics.

The executor has nothing to do with when or how to distribute assets to heirs. Their role is to follow the directions in the will, which should be expressed by the testator, or the person creating the will.

In cases like this, a will should be created by an experienced estate planning attorney. It should include the names of all individuals included in the distribution and those who should be excluded. An estate planning attorney may advise this person to create a trust, with a trustee to carry out their instructions, in addition to the will. The terms of the trust must be crystal clear, so that no one can challenge the trust, and the same applies to the will.

How to do this? While you can’t prevent someone from challenging a will, and an executor can’t take on the role of enforcer, an experienced estate planning attorney will know how to create an estate plan to withstand challenges.

First, make sure the will and trust are created when you are healthy, and of “sound mind and body.” Once someone starts displaying signs of dementia, it is easier to challenge a will or trust and claim the person wasn’t competent to make decisions. The trust and estate attorney will also know the law in your jurisdiction about creating and finalizing these documents. In some states, you only need one witness to finalize a will, while in others, you need two people. This is a minor detail. However, it can render an estate planning document invalid.

There is also a clause used in some states known as the in terrorem clause. Any beneficiary who contests the will automatically forfeits their right to inherit anything from the estate. This clause is used (where permitted) when a will challenge is expected. If this is allowed in your state, your estate planning attorney will know how to incorporate it into your will.

A common reason for wills and trusts to be deemed invalid might surprise you. People often neglect to put their final signature on a will or trust. A will could be entirely correct and well prepared. However, if it’s not signed, it’s not valid.

There are also trusts specifically created for individuals with disabilities, known as Special Needs Trusts. They are designed to benefit heirs who may not be able to manage an inheritance or who receive means-tested government benefits and may not own more than a certain amount of assets. Special Needs Trusts are also used by families who have a member with a substance abuse issue.

The best advice for this grandmother, who favors one grandchild, is to meet with an experienced estate planning attorney to discuss the situation candidly and outline her goals. She must make the decisions about how her estate is to be distributed and put them down on paper, so the executor can follow her directions.

Reference: MarketWatch (May 30, 2025) “’The situation is extreme’: I’m 65 and leaving my estate to only one grandchild. Can the others contest my will?”

Fashion Designer Takes Uniquely Named Approach to Her Will

Get ready because this is a doozy, or more accurately, a floozy. Minkoff, founder of a global handbag and clothing empire, has a “floozy clause”—a provision in her will stating if she predeceases or divorces her husband, her assets all go into a trust for her children. This is to prevent a second spouse from gaining access to her wealth, reports the article “Fashion Designer Rebecca Minkoff Reveals She Has ‘Floozy Clause’ In Will” from mondaq.

Minkoff says her mother came up with the idea, long before she or her husband had any money. However, Minkoff counted on becoming highly successful. She maintains that she trusts her husband implicitly. She doesn’t trust what someone else might do if she dies. Her goal is to prevent her children from needing to go to court against an unscrupulous person.

While the title of this provision is admittedly unique, it’s very common for individuals to want to have specific directions carried out after their death, from wishes for the administration of their estate or distribution of assets. Some want to restrict who their beneficiaries marry or even dictate the religion of a spouse.

Another somewhat unusual provision is the Special Trustee for Hostile Acts. In one case, it was used by a mother who wanted to bring harmony to her five children’s relationship after she died. She appointed a Special Trustee to limit trust determinations to any child engaging in a hostile act. However, controlling from the grave doesn’t always work. Litigation ensued between the siblings, and the case made its way up to an Appellate Court, which upheld the provision but declined to limit the application despite the request of several of the children. This mother knew her children very well.

A provision attempting to control the religious marriage requirement can be expected to be enforced if it doesn’t impose a total restraint on marriage in general or promote divorce. On the other hand, a provision providing a financial benefit for an illegal act will always be found invalid.

Back to Minkoff’s strategy: it’s got at least one flaw. If funds or assets pass directly to her husband at some point in time and he hasn’t moved on to a “floozy” with someone five years after her death, he can do whatever he wants with those assets. A better solution would be to put the assets in an Irrevocable Trust containing the limitations and restrictions she wants.

Her plan also creates a tax issue. A gift in trust for the surviving spouse passing to the children if the spouse remarries means the trust won’t qualify for the estate tax marital deduction. There is a way around this, however. The trust can be structured so that the surviving spouse receives the net income of the trust during their lifetime.

The plan isn’t a bad one. However, an irrevocable trust might be a better way to achieve the desired end in cases like this.

There is another aspect to consider when planning to control assets after death. Children are happier when their parents are happy. If a second marriage would make a surviving spouse happier, having to live under the constraints of a “floozy clause” could create resentments and tensions within the family.

Talk with your estate planning attorney about creating an estate plan to achieve your goals while you are living and after you have passed. If controlling assets after you have passed is important to you, they’ll be able to come up with a plan. You don’t have to create a new name for it—unless your mother is as clever as Minkoff’s.

Reference: mondaq (April 10, 2025) “Fashion Designer Rebecca Minkoff Reveals She Has ‘Floozy Clause’ In Will”

An Estate Plan Can Say, ‘I Love You’ More than Flowers

Estate planning is more romantic than you might think. It ensures that someone or a group of people you care about receive instructions for challenging situations and how assets are distributed. It’s about ensuring that someone has a power of attorney and medical directives. These are acts of love, according to a recent article from Wealth Management, “Say ‘I Love You’ With an Estate Plan.”

With an estate plan in place, family members aren’t forced to make difficult decisions or worry about someone’s wishes not being granted. Without it, loved ones may face a lifetime of regret.

You may think spouses automatically receive everything upon the death of a spouse. However, it doesn’t always work this way. If there are children and there is no will, the assets are divided between the spouse and the children in many states. If the children are minors, the surviving spouse may be left scrambling to make up the difference to support the children. They won’t be able to access the minor children’s inheritance, as a court-appointed conservator may control the assets.

The last thing you want a grieving spouse to have to do after you’ve passed is to deal with legal complications, unexpected expenses and a struggle to pay bills. Creating an estate plan with an experienced estate planning attorney prepares the spouses for what will happen when one passes and allows the family to focus on grieving and caring for each other, instead of untangling disorganized finances.

Planning for estate taxes is another act of care for loved ones. Life insurance is often used to cover the cost of any taxes, which reduces the taxable estate and adds to the assets a loved one will receive. Without planning, an estate can lose one-sixth of its value in taxes alone, so tax planning should always be part of an estate plan.

To make estate plans more meaningful, you may want to leave a written note to loved ones. Often called an ethical will, this personal message shares the life lessons you’ve learned, values and encouragement. For some family members, the message of thoughtful and loving advice becomes an annual ritual, where the ethical will is read every year and often referred to when facing tough decisions in their personal and professional lives.

When someone dies unexpectedly or has no opportunity to say goodbye, having these final words can anchor loved ones through life. Putting your love and wisdom into a letter will add to your legacy.

Estate planning is more than paperwork. It lightens the pain of loss, preserves peace among the family and demonstrates caring for those you love. If you don’t have an estate plan, give yourself and your loved ones peace of mind by making an appointment today.

Reference: Wealth Management (Feb. 13, 2025) “Say ‘I Love You’ With an Estate Plan”

How Estate Plan Protects Your Family

Estate planning is one of many ways to make a difference to your family’s future. Whether starting from scratch or revising a will created many years ago, your estate plan gives you control over your assets and secures your loved ones. The title of a recent article from Florida Today says it all: “Your family’s future is important to you. These estate-planning tips can help secure it.”

If you don’t have a will, get started on this part right away. A will outlines how you want assets to be distributed upon your death. Without one, the probate court in your jurisdiction will determine who receives your property, and while you may not be around to see the results, your family will. If you have a will but haven’t reviewed it in a while, you’ll want to know if it still makes sense for you. Life is all about changes, good and bad, and your will should reflect your current life.

Living trusts keep assets in the family and pass from one person to the next without court involvement. Property owned by a trust goes directly to the beneficiaries without going through the probate process. Even better, trusts are used to appoint a trustee who will manage the assets if you become incapacitated. A trust works while you are living and after you have died. Families with significant assets, blended families and anyone looking for a smooth way to pass assets to loved ones rely on trusts.

People underestimate the importance of a Power of Attorney. A durable power of attorney gives a person of your choosing the legal authority to act on your behalf in financial matters. If you are too sick to pay bills or manage investments, an agent (the person named in the POA) can act on your behalf. Without this document, your family must petition the court to appoint someone to manage your life. The court has no obligation to name a family member or even someone you know to oversee your life. It’s far better to simply have an estate planning attorney create a POA suited to your needs.

You’ll also want an advance healthcare directive, sometimes called a living will, to express your wishes for healthcare in case you can’t. This document includes your wishes regarding life-sustaining treatments, organ donation and end-of-life care. The healthcare directive serves two critical purposes: it allows you to state your wishes and spares your family from not knowing what you want during a healthcare crisis. An emergency is no time for your children to guess what Mom wants.

Beneficiary designations are used in many financial accounts to allow the asset to go directly from the original owner to the beneficiary without going through probate. Beneficiary designations override your will. If you want your nephew to inherit your IRA but your IRA’s beneficiary designation is your spouse, your nephew gets nothing. People who have been divorced need to be extra careful about making sure their beneficiary designations are updated.

Parents of minor children must designate a legal guardian in their estate plan. Establishing a trust to own an inheritance for healthcare, education and living expenses ensures that their guardian will have funds to care for the children. Minors may not inherit property, so making a trust is the best way to protect and control their inheritance.

An estate plan, including a will, power of attorney, healthcare directive and trusts, is central to protecting your family and their future. An experienced estate planning attorney will help identify your concerns and know how to address them in a legally enforceable manner.

Reference: Florida Today (Feb. 8, 2025) “Your family’s future is important to you. These estate-planning tips can help secure it.”

What are the Biggest Mistakes People Make with Estate Plans?

Ask any estate planning attorney for a horror story and step back as they come flooding out. Moms who leave millions to a veterinarian to care for a beloved cat or uncles who grabbed and kept a half-million-dollar insurance policy intended for a son are just a few examples.

When your estate plan isn’t properly prepared, many things can go wrong, according to a recent article from Kiplinger, “Wills Gone Wild: How to Avoid Estate Planning Disasters.” Assets can end up with the wrong people, or beloved children can be disinherited entirely. A bungled do-it-yourself will can lead to a distant cousin inheriting your entire estate, while a life-long partner ends up homeless and impoverished.

If you intend to protect those you love, you’ll need to sit down with an estate planning attorney and create a last will and testament and other estate planning documents. Without a will, you can be sure family discord will follow your passing.

Aretha Franklin provides one lesson on what happens when there’s no formal will. Not one but two handwritten or holographic wills were found in her home in Detroit after she died. One, dated 2010, was found in a locked cabinet, while the second was found under a couch cushion, dated 2014. There were four sons, and all disagreed about which one was valid. The matter went to court, with a judge ruling the 2014 will was valid. Not all states accept holographic wills and leaving more than one copy around the home doesn’t guarantee anything but a family fight and legal expenses.

Many people are testing online wills. However, the unintended consequences are very costly for loved ones. One father decided he would create a will without an estate planning attorney. When he died, instead of dividing his estate equally between three adult children, all his property and assets went to the children and the grandchildren. Each of his three children had children, so what he intended to be a simple three-way split ended up being divided into many small gifts.

Second and subsequent marriages can complicate estates. Estate planning attorneys all have stories about remarried people who want their estate to go to the new spouse but forget to take care of their children from the first marriage. When the second spouse inherits the entire estate, it’s easy enough to rewrite the will, and the deceased spouse’s kids are disinherited. A surviving spouse is under no legal obligation to maintain an old will or to give assets to stepchildren. Estate planning attorneys know how to use trusts and other strategies to protect the surviving spouse and the biological children.

Pets are often part of estate planning disasters. One attorney tells the tale of a client estranged from her only child, a daughter. She wanted to leave everything in her estate to her cats. However, something went very wrong, and her veterinarian inherited $3.5 million. In this case, the vet was an upstanding citizen and worked with an estate planning attorney to ensure any monies left after the death of the cats went to animal charities. However, there was no legal requirement for the vet to do so.

Elderly people are often preyed upon by their trusted caretakers. One horror story concerned two elderly men who lived together and shared a home care nurse. When one of the men was hospitalized, the caretaker and her husband came to the home and exploited the second man. The caregiver convinced the elderly man to make her a beneficiary of a $500,000 CD and joint owner of a lakefront vacation home.

When it comes to estate planning, the only way to avoid a nightmare legacy is to meet with an experienced estate planning attorney and have an estate plan created. Estate planning attorneys have seen more wild tales than you can imagine and can ensure that you don’t become one of them.

Reference: Kiplinger (Jan. 29, 2025) “Wills Gone Wild: How to Avoid Estate Planning Disasters”

Where Should I Keep My Will?

A will is only useful if it can be found after death. If misplaced, locked away without access, or accidentally destroyed, the probate court may proceed as if no will exists, distributing assets according to state law rather than the decedent’s wishes. Proper storage balances security and accessibility, ensuring that the document is protected but readily available when needed.

Best Places to Store a Will

With an Estate Planning Attorney

Many people choose to leave their will with the attorney who drafted it. Law firms typically store wills in fireproof safes, ensuring that the document is secure and intact. If the will’s validity is questioned, an attorney can verify its authenticity. However, this option is only effective if family members or the executor know which attorney holds the will.

In a Fireproof and Waterproof Safe at Home

A home safe provides security while allowing immediate family access when needed. It should be fireproof and waterproof and placed in a location known to the executor. If the safe requires a key or code, at least one trusted person should have access. Without access instructions, a locked safe can delay probate and require court intervention.

With the Probate Court (Where allowed)

Some states allow individuals to file their will with the local probate court for safekeeping. This ensures that the document is secure and legally recognized. However, this method requires updating the court file when revisions are made. If this step is overlooked, an outdated will may be used in probate.

Registered with The U.S. Will Registry

Registering your will with The U.S. Will Registry helps ensure your loved ones can locate it when needed. Even if you store a physical copy safely, family members may forget its location, misplace it, or accidentally discard it. By registering, you clearly record where your will is stored, preventing unnecessary stress and delays in settling your estate. The U.S. Will Registry also offers free online storage, giving you extra security and peace of mind.

Where Not to Store a Will

In a Bank Safe Deposit Box

While safe deposit boxes provide strong security, they can cause delays. Banks typically seal a box upon the owner’s death, preventing the executor from accessing the will without a court order. If choosing this option, the executor should be listed as a co-owner with access rights.

In an Unsecured Location

A will should not be stored in a desk drawer, filing cabinet, or with other household papers. These locations increase the risk of loss, accidental destruction, or intentional tampering. A digital copy is insufficient, as most states require the original, signed document for probate.

Ensuring the Will Can Be Found

Regardless of where the will is stored, the executor and at least one trusted person should know its location. Keeping instructions in a separate estate planning file and other critical documents ensures the will can be located and used immediately.

Key Takeaways

  • Proper storage prevents legal complications: The probate court may distribute assets according to state law if a will is lost or inaccessible.
  • An attorney’s office offers security and authentication: Keeping a will with an estate planning attorney protects it from loss and helps verify its validity.
  • A fireproof home safe balances security and access: A well-placed, fireproof safe ensures that the will is protected while remaining available to the executor.
  • Safe deposit boxes can cause probate delays: If an executor cannot access a safe deposit box, a court order may be required to retrieve the will.
  • Family members must know where the will is stored: Informing the executor and key family members of its location prevents confusion and unnecessary legal delays.

Reference: The U.S. Will Registry (Oct. 24, 2024) “Where to Store Your Will to Ensure its Security”

Living Your Best Life Solo? You Still Need an Estate Plan

Whether relying on informal networks of “found” family, trusted friends, or professionals, solo agers must plan for the inevitable aging events. A recent article, “Solo Aging: Planning for Your Best Life,” from The National Law Journal, shares the details.

Most importantly, decisions about health care and end-of-life care need to be documented as part of your estate plan, and a person you trust implicitly needs to be named in the role of your healthcare proxy. You’ll need to make sure they are comfortable in this role and willing to enact your wishes, even if they disagree with them. They will also need to have access to the estate planning documents needed, including a Healthcare Power of Attorney, Living Will, HIPAA Release and any other documents your state may require.

You’ll also want to have a Power of Attorney prepared by an experienced estate planning attorney, naming a primary and a secondary person to manage your financial and legal life if you become incapacitated. If your candidates are around the same age as you, remember they may not be able to act when you need them to, so, if possible, name younger people to serve if they cannot.

Think beyond the basics. Depending upon where you live, you may want to have a POLST (Practitioner Order on Life-Sustaining Treatment) or MOLST (Medical Orders for Life-Sustaining Treatment) to state your wishes regarding life-sustaining treatment. Some people do not wish to have CPR performed on them in the event of a cardiac arrest and have a DNR (Do Not Resuscitate) document.

You’ll want to have a financial care plan to address emergencies. Seniors 65 and older are nearly 70% likely to need some long-term care in the next two or three decades of their life. If you don’t already own a Long-Term Care insurance policy, it’s time to consider whether you can purchase one. These are now often sold as part of a life insurance policy.

A last will and testament is needed to direct the disposition of your possessions after you die. If you don’t have one, your state’s laws will govern who receives your assets. Even if you have a long-standing relationship with a partner or best friend, they have no legal rights to inherit your property. A distant relative may be located by the court and inherit everything you own instead.

A last will is used to name an executor to manage your estate. This person will be responsible for more than distributing your assets. They are also tasked with gathering information about financial accounts, applying for a tax ID number for your estate bank account, gathering assets and placing them into the estate bank account, paying your final taxes, notifying Social Security of your passing, and filing an estate tax return.

Today’s estate plan includes planning for digital assets, so your social media accounts, emails, online photos and videos, gaming, subscriptions, cryptocurrency, and all other digital accounts are managed.

For the solo ager, having an estate plan protects you while you are living and protects your estate after you have passed. It takes some extra steps when compared to the planning done by married people. However, the peace of mind of expressing your wishes is the same, and you deserve this.

Reference: The National Law Journal (Jan. 10, 2025) “Solo Aging: Planning for Your Best Life”

What Is a No-Contest Clause, and Do They Work?

While the number of wills being contested may sound small, this number doesn’t include the many wills not contested because of strategies used to discourage litigation. If your family includes people likely to battle over your estate plan, you’ll want to know about no-contest clauses. A recent article from Think Advisor, “How to ‘Bulletproof’ a Will With a No-Contest Clause,” explains how to protect your wishes.

Tens of thousands of wills are impacted by contested wills yearly, and even the closest families can find themselves fighting over inheritances. One way to prevent this is with no-contest clauses, also known as the in-terrorem clauses, placed in wills and trusts to discourage heirs from voiding their claims to any part of the overall estate if they challenge the will in court proceedings.

Estate battle reasons vary, from sibling rivalry to intergenerational power struggles. The outcome of using a no-contest clause depends on state statutes, evolving case law and how much the warring parties can or want to invest in estate litigation.

Encouraging discussion between all stakeholders in advance of the passing of the parent or grandparent can give time for everyone to work through any disagreements before courts become involved. However, even with the best of intentions, clear communication doesn’t always resolve the issues.

Almost every jurisdiction has addressed whether or not no-contest clauses can be enforced, either by law or by case law. Vermont doesn’t have any laws about enforcement, and Indiana and Florida do not allow the use of no-contest clauses.

A no-contest clause is relatively simple. However, there are limitations to be aware of. No-contest clauses work only for named beneficiaries who have a claim in the will, and they must be given a sufficient interest under the will or trust for the no-contest clause to be useful. Someone who has been cut out of a will entirely has nothing to lose by taking family members to court for their perceived deserved inheritance, while someone who stands to inherit something, albeit a smaller amount than they would have wished, could lose everything if the no-contest clause is enforced.

Many estate litigation matters involve individuals who receive significant interests. However, feel they that did not receive what they see as unequal or non-controlling interests. In these cases, the enforcement may be relatively straightforward.

Challengers who file actions because they believe someone unduly influenced the testator can be problematic. Few people understand how undue influence works in a legal setting. Undue influence can be found when a person makes bad or unfair choices because of an alleged wrongdoer’s behavior towards them, causing the victim to placate the person. However, proving undue influence is not easy.

There are strategies to overcome no-contest clauses, so estate plans must be prepared with these in mind. In some instances, estate administration is challenged, including actions over improper investments, or raising interpretations of ambiguities.

An estate planning attorney with experience will know how to use a no-contest clause and create an estate plan to stand up to challenges from dissatisfied family members or others who feel they have been treated unfairly.

Reference: Think Advisor (Jan. 16, 2025) “How to ‘Bulletproof’ a Will With a No-Contest Clause”

Discussing Estate Planning in the Holiday Season

With so many families living in distant states, the holiday season is often the only time everyone is together. A family gathering can provide a chance to talk about major life changes and plans for the future, including estate planning issues. It can be tricky to navigate. However, some conversations are simply better in person. A recent article from Independent Record, “How to tackle estate planning with loved ones this holiday season” outlines topics to cover.

Beneficiary Designations. Upon opening savings, investment and retirement accounts, an option is usually provided to name a beneficiary. This tells the financial institution who is to receive the asset upon the owner’s death, similar to how a beneficiary is named on a life insurance policy. There are often contingent beneficiaries if the primary has died or does not want to receive the assets.

Beneficiary designations should be checked every few years and when certain triggering life events occur, like death, divorce, or marriage. Some financial institutions have default beneficiary designations, so the owner should also have this information. The beneficiary receives these assets outside of the will, avoiding probate in most cases. Tax treatments of these instruments may differ, so they should be reviewed with an estate planning attorney to see how they work with the estate plan.

Power of Attorney. The POA is a document allowing an individual to name someone to make decisions on their behalf if they are incapacitated. This document should be discussed with the chosen person, usually a spouse, adult child, trusted friend, or an estate planning attorney, with their consent. If there are issues with family members, a non-family member may be a better choice.

There are different types of POA. A durable POA takes effect immediately and doesn’t expire. A non-durable POA is valid for only a specific period of time. The healthcare POA, also known as a healthcare proxy, is also needed for another person to be involved in medical care: spouses are not automatically given these rights. A HIPAA release form should also be in place, so the POA can talk with doctors and others involved in medical care.

Wills and Trusts. If there is no will, the person’s assets are distributed according to the laws of the state, which, in most cases, is decided based on kinship. Most people opt to have a will to decide how their assets are distributed.

Trusts establish a separate legal entity managed by a trustee, who also oversees distribution at the time indicated in the language of the trust. Unlike a will, assets in a trust are distributed privately and outside the court system, meaning they don’t pass through probate. An experienced estate planning attorney creates a trust to meet the specific needs of the grantor.

It’s a good idea to talk about these issues while the family members are well and able to discuss them with a clear head. An estate planning attorney will help with guidance and could also help figure out how to navigate issues when potential conflict exists. During and after the holiday season, estate planning protects loved ones and ensures that wishes are followed.

Reference: Independent Record (Nov. 25, 2024) “How to tackle estate planning with loved ones this holiday season”

Wealth Protection Through Estate Planning

Without a well-prepared estate plan, wealth can be lost to taxes, administrative costs, or disputes among heirs, both in and out of court. With an up-to-date estate plan, changes to tax laws are proactively addressed and wealth can be protected and passed across generations. A recent article appearing in Medical Economics, “Estate planning is your first line of defense against wealth loss—Here’s what you should know,” explains how an estate plan creates a framework to minimize taxes, avoid the costs and complications of probate and ensures that your wishes for your estate are followed.

Documenting assets is one task that is done when creating an estate plan. When records are not clear, transferring assets can become complicated. A comprehensive record-keeping system can store documents like deeds, life insurance policies, asset inventories, family videos and photographs online.

Many financial records are already online through client portals by major financial companies. The key to incorporating these records into an estate plan is remembering where all the information is stored and being willing to share access information with a trusted family member or friend. The person you name as an executor of your will or a trustee for a trust is the most likely candidate to be provided with this information.

There are many steps to having a solid estate plan. However, there are also many missteps. Here are some of the most common pitfalls to avoid:

Failing to update an estate plan. All the documents in your estate plan, including a Will, Power of Attorney, Healthcare Proxy, HIPAA Release Form, Trusts, Advanced Directives and more, must be updated to comply with changing laws and changes in your life.

Making a careless decision about the executor or trustee can be disastrous. The eldest child does not have to be the one to be in charge of your estate. Neither does the person you love if their life is a trainwreck. The person to be named executor and/or trustee needs to be someone you know to be extremey

Wly responsible, reliable, good with money management and a solid moral compass.

Digital assets are often ignored when it comes to estate planning. However, this new asset class needs to be included. If you have email, you have a digital asset. You have digital assets if you have email, cryptocurrency, websites, social media content, online subscriptions and photos stored in the cloud. Suppose no plan is made to create an inventory of accounts and name a digital executor. In that case, your estate becomes vulnerable to identity theft, valuable cryptocurrency could be lost forever and there may be nothing your loved ones can do.

Most family fights have to do with unequal asset distribution after the death of a parent. A clear estate plan is one way to preclude confusion about what you want to happen after death. Talking about your estate plan while you’re still able to have these uncomfortable discussions is one way to help establish your wishes. You may want to create a Letter of Intent or make a video to express your reasons for making certain decisions. This may not be legally enforceable. However, it will serve to document your wishes.

Estate planning is not just about distributing assets after death. By establishing an estate plan, the family is better prepared to deal with the loss of a loved one and can focus on healing together instead of battling over their inheritance.

Reference: Medical Economics (Oct. 17, 2024) “Estate planning is your first line of defense against wealth loss—Here’s what you should know”

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